*i salute u*

I salute those who are able to work out a long-distance relationship.

feel so silly when i impulsively shot this qn: "then u how?" 1st time i sensed such a fiery expression from her.. probably the million-th time she is bein asked/asked him or herself this qn.. i was shot with another series of qns back..

"how i noe how.. wad can i do.. wad do u tink i can do or say.. how u expect me to be.. dun tell me this is a test, i dun need any tests to prove this r/s.. why muz i wait for him.. why issit always the gal waitin.. cant he jolly well stay? n u dun tell me wad web-cam msn sms, no use! so now u ask me how.. how i noe how!!!"

i was stoned for a few seconds. i din hv any ans at all!! oh man why did i ask tat stupid qn?!?!! haaa..

Today i heard another similar "case". but this time round, no stupid questions. =p For a long long time, u cant see each other, u cant feel each other. no matter how much u wana be by each other sides, u cant.. so sing the song "where is the love" Hahaaa.. she told me she doesnt have enough faith. i din hv any answers for her too. frankly speakin.. i think i aint old enough to handle this knot either. I will be here to lend u a listening ear, i will try all my means to cheer u up abit, if u need me. Coz i never wana be the gey-kiang meddlesome one in others' affairs unless i'm being requested to.

Hmmm.. Perhaps.. perhaps.. the only wise thing to do is to be realistic yet as optimistic as u can to go with the flow. Try your very very best!! Invest more $ and time to either fly back/over to meet up. Be contented with phonecalls, web-cam, msn, sms.. who say they are useless.. they can be the best communication channel when u have no other means to keep in contact. Although network often coks up -.-" But how can any army win a war if they lose all the motivation before fighting?

of cos.. afterall, we r still practical people who faces the reality n prepares for the worst. only those who are ready to face failures can go all the way out there to be successful!!!